When life changes…

We all need a routine and a rhythm to our life. That’s why we have diaries and calendars. It means we can reasonably predict what is going to happen, and are able to stay on top of things.

But from time to time our lives change and for a while our routines disappear. As many of you know, there’s been a fair bit of upheaval here at the vicarage over these past months – which is why this blog has been a bit neglected. Thank you to all who have prayed and offered to help  – it has been much appreciated.

So how does our faith help us in times of turmoil? Here are a few things that have helped us recently:

Keep up your daily walk with the Lord. In the good times, when everything is going well, we may find taking aside time each day to read the Bible and pray a bit of chore sometimes, or an unwelcome distraction. But keeping up the discipline in those times helps you to prepare for the bumps in the road when it’s harder to keep a straight course. You may have less time to pray, or be alone. But you find that, say, even just 5 minutes reading a passage of Scripture, really helps to keep you going. It is no coincidence that sometimes just a verse read fleetingly really speaks into your situation and helps to re-focus your thoughts beyond your immediate circumstances.

Find the joy in your situation. This has been Lynda’s motto over the past few weeks, and her insight has been of great benefit to us both. One of the fruits of the Spirit is joy, and we should expect to find something for which we can give the Lord thanks each day. We have discovered that on occasions this has been, for example, the timing when something unexpected or unwelcome happens. Yes, we may wish things turned out differently, but we can see that, had things happened at another time, they would have been a whole lot worse.

Praise the Lord for what you have done and leave in His hands what you haven’t been able to do. Each week I draw up a to-do list of things I think I need to do in the coming week. I have found that rarely I manage to achieve them all, and it can be very easy to have a sense of guilt. But then again there is always more that you could do. You simply have to accept that in times of upheaval your time and energy are limited. Allow the Lord to set your priorities and trust Him for the rest.

Some verses our daughter gave to us recently, from Psalm 27:13-14, have particularly spoken to us:

I am still confident of this: I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.

We may not like waiting. We may want everything to change for the better overnight. But my experience is that the Lord can be trusted, and everything happens in His timing according to His good purposes and plan. Certainly I know He is the one who has given me strength recently and in Him I can take heart again and again.



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